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Finding balance in life is a process and it’s ever changing. Journey with Uncle Dave as we find out how to get through the rollercoaster of life while enjoying our clan of engaging, supportive individuals along the way. Peace and love is in abundance on our journeys, but what if sometimes you just need to bring a bat to the party and take a stand for the things you hold closest in order to find that balance. Deep conversations and deliberate chaos to expand and grow our minds and embrace our highest good...that’s what this podcast is about.
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Aug 1, 2026

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Jul 29, 2026

Jul 29, 2026
Jul 29, 2026
51 min
Uncle Dave welcomes Will Cook, therapist, peak-performance coach, experiential-learning advocate, and photographer, to explore fear, discipline, identity, grief, and the mindset required to reach a higher level. Will shares how his work began with court-adjudicated young men and adventure-based counseling, using ropes courses, wilderness experiences, NLP, Ericksonian hypnosis, and EMDR to build trust and create meaningful transformation. He explains how repeatedly moving toward fear can reduce its control over the nervous system and why growth often feels uncomfortable when we are stepping beyond an old identity.
Will and Dave also discuss Bryce Canyon, Watkins Glen, hiking, photography, elite athletes, and the difference between temporary motivation and the habits that drive peak performance. Will closes with the deeply personal story of being beside his father during his final moments and shares his guiding lesson: lean into painful experiences rather than running from them, because facing grief and uncertainty can expand our ability to experience joy, courage, meaning, and purpose.
To speak to or connect with Will:
https://www.instagram.com/willcookcoaching/
https://www.instagram.com/willcookphotography/
To support us, check out:
https://www.youtube.com/@davidchametzkyNOW
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peace-love-and-bring-a-bat/id1552738547

Jul 28, 2026

Jul 27, 2026
Jul 27, 2026
52 min
Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat
Host: David Chametzky
Guest: Jeff Bliss, Hypnosis Practitioner, Creator of PRTR, Poet, and Founder of Mindset Bliss
What happens when failure is no longer evidence that you should quit—but instead becomes the very thing that points you toward success?
In this powerful and highly practical episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, David Chametzky welcomes hypnosis practitioner and mindset specialist Jeff Bliss for a conversation about thoughts, choices, personal boundaries, emotional triggers, health, and the language we use to shape our lives.
Jeff begins the episode by sharing his original poem, “Hailure,” which combines the words hail and failure. The poem reframes failure as a gift that may sting when it hits us but can also awaken new ideas, open mental doors, and reveal paths we could not previously see.
The conversation then explores how our thoughts influence our actions and ultimately shape our outcomes. Jeff shares two memorable frameworks:
BAR: Beliefs, Actions, Results
TAO: Thoughts, Actions, Outcomes
Both remind us that change begins internally. Our thoughts create beliefs, our beliefs influence our behavior, and our behavior helps determine the results we experience.
Failure Is Not the Finish Line
Jeff recounts speaking with a man who described himself simply as “a failure.” He believed failed relationships, career setbacks, fitness struggles, and disappointments had become his identity.
Jeff challenges that thinking.
Failure is something that happened. It is not who you are.
Instead of treating setbacks as proof that success is impossible, we can begin asking what the experience is trying to teach us. Failure can shake loose new thoughts, create unexpected innovations, and force us to develop skills we would never have pursued while everything was comfortable.
As Jeff explains, we can learn to collect failures and rejection like someone panning for gold—sifting through what did not work until we uncover what does.
Ask a Better Question
One of the episode’s central lessons is that the quality of our lives is often influenced by the quality of the questions we ask.
Questions such as these tend to keep people trapped:
“Why does this always happen to me?”
“Why was I so stupid?”
“Can I really do this?”
“What if I fail?”
Jeff recommends replacing “Can I?” with “How can I?”
Instead of asking, “Can I get healthier?” ask:
“How can I make one healthier choice today?”
Instead of asking, “Can I become a speaker?” ask:
“How can I practice speaking for one minute?”
The first question invites doubt. The second instructs the mind to begin searching for solutions.
The Power of “Yet”
David and Jeff discuss the enormous influence of small words.
“I can’t do it” becomes:
“I can’t do it yet.”
“I have never been good at public speaking” becomes:
“Up until now, I haven’t been confident speaking publicly.”
Jeff adds another important statement:
“And now I choose…”
“Up until now, I have feared public speaking, and now I choose to improve one percent at a time.”
This language does not deny the past. It simply stops allowing the past to control the future.
Choosing a New Identity
Jeff shares his experience with cold-water exposure. After spending most of his life believing he could not tolerate the cold, he tried repeating the affirmation, “I love the cold.”
His mind rejected it immediately.
He then changed the statement to:
“I choose to love the cold.”
That small adjustment removed the internal argument. His subconscious could challenge whether he currently loved the cold, but it could not argue with his ability to choose.
David connects this idea to his recent health experience. After doctors discovered serious arterial blockages and placed a stent, David made a clear decision to change his eating habits and prioritize his health.
The lesson is not simply to hope circumstances improve. It is to make a choice, establish clear boundaries, and support that decision through consistent action.
Boundaries That Actually Hold
Jeff describes a practical strategy he has used to manage his weight: choosing a maximum clothing size and refusing to purchase anything larger.
The point is not the clothing itself. It is creating a boundary that is firm enough to guide behavior.
Some boundaries are like painted lines on a road. They can be crossed.
Others are like the concrete divider in the center of a highway. They are non-negotiable.
Whether the issue is health, alcohol, relationships, work, or personal habits, strong boundaries reduce the constant need to renegotiate with ourselves.
PRTR: Pain Resolving and Trigger Remapping
Jeff explains his proprietary approach called PRTR, or Pain Resolving and Trigger Remapping.
Painful experiences can become connected to names, songs, smells, places, memories, or situations. Even when people try to avoid the memory, the emotional response may continue operating beneath the surface.
PRTR is designed to help resolve the emotional pain associated with an experience and then remap the old trigger toward a safer or more positive internal response.
Jeff compares unresolved trauma to walking with a splinter. Every step hurts because the splinter is still present. Rather than merely learning to tolerate the pain, the goal is to remove the splinter.
David offers another image: a frightening movie feels very different when the theater lights are turned on. The movie has not changed, but the viewer’s experience of it has.
Healing does not require pretending that something never happened. It means reaching a place where the memory no longer controls the present.
What Hypnosis Really Is
Jeff defines hypnosis simply as:
A suggestion combined with a reception.
A movie suggests sadness, fear, excitement, or hope. When the audience accepts that suggestion and feels the emotion, a hypnotic process is already taking place.
Hypnosis does not always involve swinging watches or theatrical performances. It can happen through language, stories, memories, questions, music, and repeated beliefs.
That makes the words we use—especially the words we repeatedly say to ourselves—extremely important.
The Rule of One
Jeff closes with a simple principle: Do one thing.
Too tired to exercise? Move for one minute.
Want to write a book? Write one sentence.
Need to repair your health? Make one better choice.
Want to build confidence? Take one uncomfortable but manageable step.
The goal is not to perform a complete transformation in a single day. The goal is to begin.
Lower the barrier, take the smallest possible step, celebrate the progress, and continue moving.
The Magic Garden Seed
Ask a better question.
Instead of asking why life is against you, ask how you can use the experience.
Instead of wondering whether you are capable, ask what the next step would look like.
Instead of fearing failure, ask what failure may be trying to teach you.
Your thoughts influence your actions. Your actions shape your outcomes. And sometimes one better question is enough to redirect your entire life.
Connect with Jeff Bliss
Visit:
MindsetBliss.com
The website includes links to Jeff’s videos, social platforms, hypnosis work, PRTR resources, and additional mindset tools.
Final Message
Failure does not make you a failure.
Pain does not have to remain your identity.
Your past may explain some of your patterns, but it does not get to make every future decision.
Ask a better question.
Choose a stronger thought.
Take one step.
Set a real boundary.
And remember that you may not be able to do it—yet.
Bring peace and love into your life. Bring awesome thoughts. Be authentic today, keep swinging, and find your sweet spot.

Jul 10, 2026
Jul 10, 2026
46 min
Uncle Dave welcomes longtime friend Elena Rodriguez, CEO and founder of Show Your Crown Enterprises in Fort Wayne, Indiana, to discuss her businesses Besitos Beauty, the Surrender to Rise book series and events, and Prospera TV Network and the faith-driven story behind them. Elena shares losing her husband to a heart attack and stroke in 2018, then discovering financial deception and a five-year affair after his death, choosing prayer, grace, and forgiveness instead of bitterness. She explains how this led to The Christmas Widow initiative supporting newly widowed families and children, and her annual 24-hour Christmas in July livestream-a-thon built around a “Circle of Hope” (Help One Person Every Day). They talk about respecting platforms, sharing messages with integrity, and Elena’s guiding lesson: stop wasting time asking questions you’ll never get answers to and move forward with purpose.
To speak to or support Elena:
https://showyourcrown.com/
https://texasheartcollection.com/
To Support us check out:
https://www.youtube.com/@davidchametzkyNOW
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peace-love-and-bring-a-bat/id1552738547

Jun 12, 2026
Jun 12, 2026
51 min
Join Uncle Dave on Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat as he welcomes executive and leadership expert Dr. Kevin Gazzara to unpack the secrets of Positive Intelligence and how to transform ordinary people into exceptional leaders. Discover how to identify the hidden internal "Saboteurs" holding you back like the Controller, Stickler, or Pleaser, and activate your "Sage brain" to unlock your full potential. Learn why true corporate success relies on adopting a servant leadership mindset, which focuses on long-term team relationship building rather than short-term cause-and-effect. Explore the concept of the "Flow state" to understand how perfectly balancing your skills and challenges can eliminate workplace anxiety, cure boredom, and maximize your team's creativity. Dr. Gazzara also shares vital communication tips and discusses his innovative book, The Leader of Oz, which uses classic movie characters to teach practical behavioral styles and team development. Tune in to elevate your management skills and learn how to help your team find their sweet spot!
To connect with Dr. Gazzara please check out his links below:
For our Management and Leadership Products, they can be found at https://Magnaleadership.com
For Positive Intelligence, information can be found at: https://pqtrainingandcoaching.com/
For Coaching and Consulting information can be found at: https://www.coachsultants.com/
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Jun 10, 2026
Jun 10, 2026
55 min
This podcast episode features an interview between host Uncle Dave and Michael Yearby, an active-duty Air Force Master Sergeant with over two decades of service. Yearby describes his transition from a difficult upbringing in Miami to a disciplined military life, highlighting his specialized work. The conversation explores his academic journey, where he overcame self-doubt to earn a master’s degree in organizational management while working demanding shifts. Yearby reflects candidly on personal hardships, including marital infidelity and the loss of a close friend, emphasizing the necessity of resilience and mentorship. Ultimately, the dialogue centers on the power of forgiveness and the importance of using one's past struggles to guide and support others.
To connect further with Sgt Major Yearby please click the link https://www.michaelyearby.com/anime-mindset-order
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