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Finding balance in life is a process and it’s ever changing. Journey with Uncle Dave as we find out how to get through the rollercoaster of life while enjoying our clan of engaging, supportive individuals along the way. Peace and love is in abundance on our journeys, but what if sometimes you just need to bring a bat to the party and take a stand for the things you hold closest in order to find that balance. Deep conversations and deliberate chaos to expand and grow our minds and embrace our highest good...that’s what this podcast is about.
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4 hours ago
In this powerful and purpose-driven episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with nonprofit powerhouse Vanessa Lindsey to talk about what it really takes to start, build, and sustain a nonprofit organization.
Vanessa brings nearly four decades of lived experience as a nonprofit founder—sharing the unseen struggles, sacrifices, and triumphs that come with answering a calling bigger than yourself. From teen motherhood to building a long-standing behavioral health organization, Vanessa’s story is one of resilience, faith, and unwavering service.
This episode shines a light on the unsung heroes of our communities: nonprofit founders.
Key Themes & Takeaways
🌱 From Purpose to Nonprofit
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Vanessa founded her first nonprofit at just 21 years old after becoming a teen mother and seeing firsthand the lack of resources available.
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What began as a program for teen mothers evolved into a long-standing behavioral health organization offering drug and alcohol counseling and youth support.
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Her work was never about recognition—it was about answering a promise and fulfilling a purpose.
💔 The Hidden Cost of Nonprofit Leadership
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Nonprofit founders often operate behind the scenes, carrying emotional, financial, and spiritual burdens with little recognition.
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Sleepless nights, personal financial sacrifice, and constant stress are common—but rarely discussed.
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Vanessa emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for founders to be supported, not just supporters.
🤝 Collaboration Over Competition
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Vanessa speaks candidly about the territorial nature of the nonprofit world—and why it must change.
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No single organization can serve everyone; collaboration multiplies impact.
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Partnering with other nonprofits allows for shared resources, stronger grants, and better outcomes for communities.
💰 Fearless Fundraising & Grant Writing
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Vanessa demystifies grant writing and fundraising, sharing her early journey from not knowing what a grant was to ranking #2 in the state on a major application.
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Fundraising isn’t about begging—it’s about alignment, storytelling, and meeting real community needs.
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Diversifying funding and leveraging partnerships is essential for sustainability.
🧠 Trauma, Self-Care, and Founder Burnout
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Many nonprofits are born from personal trauma—but founders often accumulate secondary trauma along the way.
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Vanessa stresses that founders must learn to care for themselves as much as they care for their mission.
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Healing, rest, and joy are not luxuries—they are necessities.
✨ Faith, Love, and Perspective
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Vanessa shares a deeply personal insight: seeing herself as a vessel for love and purpose each day.
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When founders lead with love—rather than fear or ego—their work becomes sustainable and transformational.
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Loving yourself first allows you to truly serve others.
About the Fearless Fundraising Summit
📅 July 12–14
🎟 FREE Virtual Summit
The Fearless Fundraising Summit brings together 10–12 experienced speakers to help nonprofit founders:
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Raise money with confidence
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Learn creative fundraising strategies
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Build strong foundations with limited resources
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Avoid burnout while growing impact
Designed specifically for nonprofits with limited time, funding, and staff.
The Magic Garden Seed 🌱
Nonprofit founders are not selfish for needing support.
You cannot pour from an empty cup.
Collaboration creates abundance.
Love is the strategy.
Connect with Vanessa Lindsey
🌐 Nonprofit Organization:
Another Choice, Another Chance
👉 www.anotherchoiceanotherchance.org
🌐 Founder Support & Membership:
Nonprofit Founders Club
👉 www.nonprofitfoundersclub.com
Vanessa offers mentorship, education, and community for nonprofit founders who want to build legacy-driven organizations without burning out.
Final Words from Uncle Dave
This episode is a reminder that real change starts at the community level—with people willing to show up, sacrifice, and serve without applause.
Bring peace.
Lead with love.
And when you bring a bat—swing for impact, not ego. 🟢💙

Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Make Fun a Habit: Creativity, Curiosity, and Closing the Gap with Mike Brennan
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
In this inspiring and energizing episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with Mike Brennan to explore creativity as a way of living—not just something reserved for artists.
Mike breaks down what it really means to make fun a habit, how creativity shows up far beyond drawing or painting, and why curiosity, play, and presence are essential tools for mental wellness, problem-solving, and personal growth.
This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck in routine, burned out by “efficiency,” or disconnected from joy—and wants practical ways to reconnect with themselves through creativity.
Key Themes & Takeaways
🎨 Creativity Is Not a Talent—It’s a Way of Being
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Mike reframes creativity as problem-solving, curiosity, and expression, not just artistic skill.
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Everyone is a creator—whether through business, organization, storytelling, leadership, or innovation.
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Creativity doesn’t have to look “artistic” to be valid.
🧠 Presence Unlocks Possibility
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Mike shares how live event sketching grew out of simply being present in the moment.
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Creativity thrives when we slow down and pay attention to what’s happening right now.
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Being present allows us to capture meaning in the midst of noise and busyness.
🔁 From Burnout to Breakthrough
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Mike opens up about stepping away from creative work for nearly a decade—and how suppressing creativity contributed to depression.
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Reconnecting with creativity wasn’t about career—it was about identity and well-being.
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Creativity became a lifeline, not a luxury.
⏱ The Power of Small, Consistent Action
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A daily 10–15 minute creative habit led to massive long-term change.
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Consistency matters more than intensity.
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Showing up imperfectly every day builds momentum and self-trust.
🕹 Play Is Not a Reward—It’s a Process
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Fun doesn’t belong only at the end of work—it belongs inside the work.
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Introducing play lowers pressure and opens access to deeper insight and innovation.
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Curiosity is often the doorway to breakthroughs we weren’t actively searching for.
🔄 Change Agents for Creativity
Mike shares practical ways to reset when creativity or motivation stalls:
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Try a new tool (even a “bad” one)
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Change your route home
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Break routine intentionally
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Allow yourself to experiment without needing results
Failure, in this context, is information—not defeat.
About Make Fun a Habit
Mike’s book, Make Fun a Habit, is a practical, encouraging guide designed to:
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Help people reconnect with joy
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Shift mindset around work and creativity
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Introduce simple, daily actions that build momentum
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Replace burnout with curiosity and engagement
Each chapter offers stories, reflections, and actionable prompts to help readers bring fun back into everyday life.
Memorable Quotes
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“Creativity isn’t just artistic—it’s how you solve problems.”
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“Fun doesn’t have to wait until the work is done.”
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“When pressure is removed, insight appears.”
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“Consistency beats inspiration.”
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“You don’t need more time—you need intention.”
The Magic Garden Seed 🌱
Take time to imagine where you want to be—then take one small action today.
Vision creates direction.
Action creates momentum.
Fun keeps you moving.
Connect with Mike Brennan
🌐 Website:
www.mikebrennan.me
From there you can explore:
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Live event sketching & visual storytelling
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Creative coaching & speaking
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Books & resources
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Podcast: Creative Chats
Final Words from Uncle Dave
Creativity isn’t optional—it’s essential.
Fun isn’t frivolous—it’s fuel.
And presence is the gateway to possibility.
Bring peace.
Lead with love.
And when you bring a bat—swing with curiosity and hit your sweet spot. 🟢🎨✨

Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
In this raw, courageous, and deeply human episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with Doug Ferrer to talk openly about men’s mental health, grief, addiction, loss, and the quiet battles men often fight alone.
Doug shares his powerful life journey—from losing his father at age 12, to years of substance abuse and emotional avoidance, to standing on the edge of a roof in his darkest moment, and ultimately choosing to step back and rebuild his life with intention.
This is not a surface-level conversation. It’s about what happens after the smile, after the success, and after the pain—when a man decides to stay, heal, and become the anchor he never had.
Key Themes & Takeaways
🧠 Men’s Mental Wellness & the Cost of Silence
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Doug speaks honestly about how men are conditioned to suppress pain instead of processing it.
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Losing his father at 12 created an emotional wound that went unaddressed for decades.
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Without positive male role models, Doug turned to drugs and alcohol as a way to escape pain.
💔 Trauma Doesn’t Disappear—It Waits
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Avoidance didn’t erase the pain; it redirected it into relationships, addiction, and self-sabotage.
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Doug explains how unresolved grief quietly shaped his choices well into adulthood.
🏠 The Edge Moment
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Doug shares the moment he stood on the edge of a roof, overwhelmed by failed relationships and emotional exhaustion.
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What stopped him wasn’t fear—it was remembering the pain of losing his father and refusing to pass that pain onto his children.
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Suicide doesn’t end pain—it multiplies it.
🔥 Cutting Off the Old Self
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Doug describes how part of him did die that day—but not through suicide.
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He consciously let go of the version of himself that was driven by avoidance, addiction, and self-destruction.
🧰 Rebuilding Through Awareness & Routine
Doug didn’t “snap out of it”—he rebuilt intentionally:
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Eliminating toxic inputs (substances, negative habits, reactive behaviors)
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Developing daily routines that support mental clarity
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Learning to respond instead of react
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Creating space to check in with himself regularly
🛑 You Don’t Need to React to Everything
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Doug emphasizes a powerful principle: not everything deserves a response.
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Triggers lose power when you recognize them instead of engaging them.
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Peace is often found in walking away—not winning.
🤝 Brotherhood & Meeting People Where They Are
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Doug stresses the importance of meeting people where they are, not where we think they “should” be.
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Real support doesn’t lecture—it listens.
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Men need spaces where honesty is safe and vulnerability isn’t weakness.
Memorable Quotes
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“Suicide doesn’t stop the pain—it multiplies it and passes it on.”
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“I lost my first superhero at 12 years old.”
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“A bad moment is not a bad life.”
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“Happiness is an inside job.”
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“Not everything—or everyone—deserves a response.”
Doug’s Two Core Gems 💎
1️⃣ Smile—On Purpose
Your body and brain respond to simple physical cues. A smile can shift your internal state and create momentum toward healing.
2️⃣ Silence Is Power
You don’t have to react to every comment, criticism, or trigger. Walking away is not weakness—it’s wisdom.
Who This Episode Is For
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Men carrying grief they’ve never spoken about
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Anyone struggling with addiction, anger, or emotional numbness
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Fathers who want to break generational cycles
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People who feel like they’re “fine” on the outside but falling apart inside
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Anyone who needs to hear: you’re not broken—you’re human
Connect with Doug Ferrer
📍 Facebook:
Search Doug Ferrer or Coach Doug Ferrer
🌐 Website:
douglasferrer.com (coming soon)
Doug is passionate about creating safe, grounded spaces where men can talk honestly, rebuild self-worth, and choose life—every day.
Final Words from Uncle Dave
This episode is a reminder that staying is an act of courage.
Healing isn’t loud.
Strength isn’t silent.
And choosing yourself is never selfish.
Bring peace.
Lead with love.
And when you bring a bat—swing for your sweet spot. 🟢🔥

Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
In this deeply honest and reflective episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with bestselling author and storytelling guide Carrie KC West to explore how our lives are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves—and how rewriting those stories can lead to healing, freedom, and fulfillment.
Carrie shares her journey through trauma, loss, forgiveness, and self-discovery, explaining how narrative therapy, storytelling, and conscious reflection helped her transform pain into purpose. This episode dives into accountability, emotional truth, family dynamics, forgiveness, and how becoming the author of your own life can unlock lasting peace.
Key Themes & Takeaways
✍️ Life as a Story
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Carrie introduces the idea that our lives function like stories, with characters, villains, heroes, plot twists, and themes.
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When we recognize ourselves as the protagonist, we regain agency over our future.
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Seeing antagonists as characters—not life sentences—loosens emotional grip and resentment.
🧠 Narrative Therapy & Healing
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Carrie blends psychology and storytelling to help people reorganize their experiences in healthier ways.
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Shifting perspective can reduce emotional attachment to trauma without denying the pain.
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Rewriting your story does not erase the past—it reframes it.
💔 Forgiveness as Freedom
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Forgiveness is not approval; it’s release.
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Holding onto blame keeps us trapped in a prison of our own making.
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True forgiveness allows us to stop recreating old wounds in new relationships.
🔄 Accountability Without Shame
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Carrie emphasizes the importance of owning your mistakes without self-loathing.
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Healing deepens when we acknowledge how our own actions affected others.
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Accountability builds intimacy, trust, and emotional freedom.
🧩 Identity, Belonging & Inherited Beliefs
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Many of our beliefs are inherited—not chosen.
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“Shoulds” are often signs of someone else’s story running our life.
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Questioning old scripts is the first step toward authenticity.
🎬 Becoming the Lead Character
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Carrie asks a powerful question: Who would play you in the movie of your life?
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Many people discover they’ve been playing background roles in their own story.
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Growth begins when you choose to step into the lead.
Memorable Quotes
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“Forgiveness sets you free—it doesn’t excuse what happened.”
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“Should is always someone else’s story.”
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“I didn’t want my ending to be ‘life sucks and then you die.’”
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“We aren’t human doings—we’re human beings.”
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“You can’t rewrite the story if you won’t read it honestly.”
Carrie’s Core Message
Fear of the unknown keeps people stuck—but growth lives on the other side of discomfort.
You are allowed to question your story.
You are allowed to change the ending.
You are allowed to become someone new.
The Magic Garden Seed 🌱
Fear is not a stop sign—it’s an invitation.
You will survive change.
You will grow through it.
And the story you’re afraid to rewrite is often the one that sets you free.
About the Book: Life Rewritten
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Amazon #1 Bestseller
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Part memoir, part psychology, part practical guide
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Helps readers:
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Reframe trauma
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Identify personal story arcs
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Recognize inherited beliefs
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Rewrite their internal narrative with intention
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Carrie is currently working on her next book, Love Rewritten, which continues this journey into relationships, self-worth, and emotional healing.
Connect with Carrie KC West
🌐 Website:
www.carriekcwest.com
📚 On her site you’ll find:
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Life Rewritten
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Podcast episodes
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Writing and coaching resources
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Tools for personal growth and story healing
Final Words from Uncle Dave
This episode reminds us that we don’t have to stay trapped in the stories we inherited.
Healing begins when we pause, reflect, and choose a new path forward.
Bring peace.
Lead with love.
And when you bring a bat—rewrite your story and swing for your sweet spot. 🟢✨

Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
In this powerful, heart-centered episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with two inspiring women, Julia Payan and Caramie Ann Baker, to explore entrepreneurship, financial empowerment, resilience, and living authentically through adversity.
This conversation blends fire, wisdom, vulnerability, and practical insight—touching on single motherhood, starting a business from scratch, redefining success, financial literacy, mindset shifts, and trusting your inner compass when life demands courage.
Key Themes & Takeaways
🔥 The Fire of Entrepreneurship
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Julia shares her journey of launching The Gold Spa in Salem, Oregon and the realities of starting a business as a single mom.
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Entrepreneurship isn’t just about passion—it requires resilience, adaptability, and a willingness to keep learning.
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Success isn’t instant; it’s built through persistence, self-belief, and growth.
💎 The Gift of Adversity
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Both guests highlight adversity as a gift—a catalyst for strength, clarity, and purpose.
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Julia reflects on reaching a crossroads after divorce and choosing an unconventional path aligned with freedom, family, and fulfillment.
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Caramie emphasizes that losing everything can become the foundation for rebuilding something even greater.
💰 Financial Literacy & Wealth Creation
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Caramie discusses the importance of financial education, especially for entrepreneurs who must build their own legacy.
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Wealth is not just about money—it’s about confidence, vision, self-worth, and alignment with values.
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Investing in yourself is the first and most important investment.
🌱 Authenticity & Alignment
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Being your authentic self is not optional—it’s essential for long-term success and peace.
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Julia describes authenticity as feeling at peace in your work and surroundings.
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Caramie defines authenticity as being rooted—grounded in who you truly are, regardless of external circumstances.
🧠 Mindset: Growth, Reflection & Reassessment
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Entrepreneurs must be willing to reassess, recalibrate, and change direction when needed.
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Small, achievable goals create momentum and confidence.
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Growth often requires humility—being willing to be a beginner again.
✈️ Staying on Course (The Airplane Analogy)
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Like a plane constantly correcting its path, success requires frequent check-ins and realignment.
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Daily practices—gratitude, reflection, vision—keep you moving toward your North Star.
Powerful Quotes from the Episode
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“I was given the gift of adversity—and instead of breaking me, it built me.” – Julia Payan
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“If you can’t be willing to be a beginner again, you’ll never reach the next level.” – Caramie Ann Baker
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“We don’t get to the life we want by pressure—we get there through alignment.”
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“You’re not behind. You’re becoming.”
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“Rise. Root. Rebuild.”
The R-Word Moment
Each guest shared a powerful R-word to anchor the episode’s message:
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Julia’s R-word: RISE
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Caramie’s R-word: ROOTED
Stay grounded in who you are so you can grow without losing yourself.
Magic Garden Seeds 🌸
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Ask for Support – You are never a burden. Growth accelerates when you allow help.
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Change the Pattern – If you keep making the same choice, you’ll get the same result. Choose differently.
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Trust Yourself – You already have what you need to build the life you want.
Connect with the Guests
🌿 Caramie Ann Baker
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Website: www.caramieannbaker.com
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Platforms: Facebook & Instagram
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Offers complimentary clarity and wealth strategy sessions
✨ Julia Payan
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Instagram: @thegoldspa
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Facebook: Julia Payan
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Founder of The Gold Spa in Salem, Oregon
Final Words from Uncle Dave
This episode is a reminder that success isn’t about perfection—it’s about courage, authenticity, and choosing growth even when it’s uncomfortable.
Bring peace.
Lead with love.
And when you bring a bat—swing for your sweet spot. 🟢🔥

Monday Jun 16, 2025
Getting Unstuck: Embracing Your True Self with Rob Wentz
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Monday Jun 16, 2025
On today’s powerful episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave welcomes Rob Wentz, a dynamic speaker, podcaster, and advocate of living authentically. Rob shares his deeply personal journey of transformation, highlighting his path from feeling stuck and insecure to embracing his genuine self with confidence. Dive deep into how recognizing internal barriers, embracing mentorship, and practicing intentional self-love can lead us all to become unstuck and thrive.
Key Takeaways:
🌟 Discovering Authenticity: Rob shares how finding his true voice—both in broadcasting and life—has helped him break free from feeling stuck.
🌟 Noticing Your Inner Signals: Learn practical steps for recognizing when you're stuck through awareness of emotional and physical cues.
🌟 Importance of Mentorship: Rob discusses the transformative power of having a mentor who can guide and inspire you toward deeper personal growth.
🌟 Intentionality in Relationships: Understand why intentional interactions and true presence matter greatly in building meaningful connections.
🌟 Love Yourself to Love Others: Rob emphasizes that real transformation begins when we learn to genuinely love and respect ourselves first.
Memorable Quotes:
“Don’t worry about where you’re going—just love people.”
“Every second is a new chance to start over again.”
“Put your name at the top of the list of people you need to love better.”
Connect with Rob:
Website: Lead Impact Transform
Facebook: Rob Z Wentz
Join Uncle Dave and Rob Wentz as they inspire you to step into authenticity, embrace your inner strength, and swing for life’s sweet spots.
Peace, Love, and Always Be Authentically YOU! 🌟

Friday Jun 13, 2025
Spiritual Alchemy: Transforming Health and Healing with Eva Vennari
Friday Jun 13, 2025
Friday Jun 13, 2025
On today's Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave dives deep into the fascinating world of spiritual alchemy with wellness expert Eva Vennari. Eva shares her incredible journey of overcoming chronic illness and discovering how to truly listen to what our bodies and spirits are trying to tell us. Together, they explore how mineral balancing, emotional intelligence, and ancient wisdom can create transformative healing experiences.
Key Takeaways:
🌟 Listening to Your Body: Eva’s story emphasizes trusting your intuition and looking beyond traditional medical approaches to truly understand your health needs.
🌟 Mineral Balancing Science: Learn why mineral balancing through hair analysis can pinpoint the root causes of chronic health issues and provide profound healing solutions.
🌟 Emotional Intelligence and Healing: Eva highlights the crucial link between our emotional health, boundaries, and physical wellness.
🌟 Spiritual Alchemy: Understanding the connection between emotional, spiritual, and physical healing for complete transformation.
🌟 Curiosity Over Judgment: Embrace curiosity as a healing practice rather than simply trying to "fix" what's wrong.
Memorable Quotes:
“If you give your body what it needs, it can heal itself.”
“Until we make the unconscious conscious, it will rule us, and we’ll call it fate.” (Carl Jung, quoted by Eva)
“Solutions are just as unique as your thumbprint.”
Connect with Eva:
Website: The Elevate Institute
Free Discovery Call available!
Join Uncle Dave as we transform health, embrace emotional intelligence, and tap into the ancient wisdom that lies within us all.
Peace, Love, and Always Hit Your Sweet Spot! 🌟

Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Upgrading to Human 2.0: Mastering the Art of Self with Paul McFadden
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Today on Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat, Uncle Dave sits down with the dynamic Paul McFadden to explore the next level of human evolution: Human 2.0. Paul shares profound insights into integrating mind, body, and spirit, emphasizing the power of self-awareness, authenticity, and intentional living. Dive in as we discuss leadership, resilience, the transformative power of purpose, and how to evolve personally and professionally without losing touch with our true human essence.
Key Takeaways:
🌟 Human 2.0 Explained: Embracing a future where technology meets humanity, but without losing our fundamental human experiences and connections.
🌟 Authenticity & Self-Mastery: Paul emphasizes the power of showing up authentically in all areas of life, and shares how to practically embody your purpose.
🌟 Purpose & Self-Discovery: The simple yet powerful approach to discovering your purpose—grow yourself and then give to others.
🌟 Intentional Change: Understanding the power of intentionally choosing how you show up every day.
🌟 Integrative Practices: Paul shares insights into how various practices—such as meditation, acupuncture, resilience training, and integrative health—can holistically enhance our lives.
Memorable Quotes:
"Mastering others is strength, but mastering yourself is true power."
"Purpose is simple: grow yourself and give to others. How you do that is your calling."
"Authenticity is the ability to show up fully as yourself, unapologetically."
Connect with Paul:
Instagram: @IMPaulMcFadden
Join Uncle Dave as we hit another episode out of the park, and learn how upgrading ourselves can lead to upgrading our lives.
Peace, Love, and Bring Your Authentic Self! 🌟

Wednesday Jun 11, 2025
Declutter Your Space, Free Your Mind: Creating Calm from Chaos with Kitty Andrews
Wednesday Jun 11, 2025
Wednesday Jun 11, 2025
Join host David Chametski as he welcomes decluttering expert Kitty Andrews on an empowering episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat. Together, they dive deep into how decluttering our physical spaces can profoundly impact our mental and emotional health. Kitty shares personal stories, practical tips, and heartfelt insights on why we hold onto clutter and how releasing it can transform our lives.
Key Highlights:
1. Meet Kitty Andrews:
Founder of Declutter the Brain, helping people clear both physical and mental clutter.
Pioneer in virtual decluttering since 2018, years before virtual sessions became mainstream.
Passionate about helping individuals uncover emotional blocks hidden behind physical clutter.
2. The "Why" Behind Our Clutter:
Kitty explains how clutter is often tied to emotional baggage, trauma, and unresolved feelings.
Shares personal client stories highlighting how clutter connects deeply with past experiences, family relationships, and hidden emotional wounds.
3. Emotional Attachments & Sentimental Items:
Discusses the difficulty of decluttering sentimental items and the guilt associated with letting go.
Offers powerful questions to ask yourself, such as, “Do I really need this, and how will it serve me moving forward?”
4. Kitty’s “ONE” Method for Decluttering:
Kitty introduces her simplified, practical decluttering approach:
One Room at a Time: Focus on a single space to avoid overwhelm.
One Area of that Room at a Time: Break the room down into manageable sections.
One Item at a Time: Make mindful decisions to avoid guilt and overwhelm.
5. Handling Overwhelm & Procrastination:
Kitty addresses common overwhelm that prevents people from starting decluttering projects.
Advises patience, reminding listeners: "Clutter didn't appear overnight, and it won’t disappear overnight—give yourself grace."
6. Giving with Love & Releasing with Respect:
Discusses how shifting the language from "getting rid of" items to "passing them forward with love" changes the emotional dynamic and eases the decluttering process.
Highlights practical and meaningful ways to donate or repurpose items to benefit others and add positivity to letting go.
7. Practical Tips for Maintaining Clutter-Free Spaces:
Kitty provides simple strategies for preventing clutter from returning:
The Five-Minute Desk Cleanup: Tidy your workspace at the end of each day for a positive start every morning.
The Waitress Rule: Never leave a room empty-handed; always carry something that belongs elsewhere to maintain order effortlessly.
8. Personal Stories & Experiences:
Kitty and David share heartfelt anecdotes about decluttering sentimental belongings and the emotional journey involved.
They discuss the concept of "Swedish Death Cleaning," focusing on proactively decluttering to spare loved ones later challenges.
9. Decluttering Mindset & Energy:
The episode emphasizes decluttering as a spiritual and emotional practice, not just physical organization.
Kitty shares how decluttering physical space can open up new paths in life, including improving relationships, health, and overall mental clarity.
Memorable Quotes:
"Clutter is defined as anything that no longer serves you." – Kitty Andrews
"Don't rush through decluttering; every item deserves mindful attention."
"Transform your clutter into love by giving items new life and purpose."
"Decluttering your physical space frees your mental and emotional energy."
How to Connect with Kitty Andrews:
Website: declutterthebrain.com
Facebook Group: Declutter the Brain
YouTube Channel: Declutter the Brain (with over 1,100 videos!)
LinkedIn & Facebook: Kitty Andrews
Download her free guide: 7 Easy Steps to Conquer Your Physical and Mental Clutter available on her website.
Final Thoughts from Host David Chametski:
David reminds listeners to declutter mindfully, approach it as an opportunity for emotional release, and celebrate each step with joy and gratitude. Decluttering isn't just about organization—it's about creating space for the life you truly desire.
Listen & Subscribe:
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Episode Length: Approximately 40 minutes
Category: Self-Improvement, Mental Health, Personal Development, Organization
Thank you for listening!
Please subscribe, rate, and share this episode to help others find peace and clarity through decluttering their lives.

Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Join David Chametski as he welcomes Kimberley Inez Mays to an insightful episode of Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat. Kimberley is a seasoned digital strategist and automation expert who specializes in empowering coaches, speakers, and small businesses to amplify their message through marketing automation and AI technology.
Key Highlights:
1. Meet Kimberley Inez Mays:
Founder of Automated Thought Leader Academy.
Expert in marketing automation, AI technology, and digital strategy.
Over two decades of experience in digital marketing, technology, and web development.
2. Kimberley’s Journey to Digital Mastery:
Started programming and web design as a teenager, driven by curiosity and a passion for puzzles.
Initially taught herself HTML and coding, inspired by early experiences with computers (like the Commodore 64).
Her first professional role involved programming email marketing campaigns for major corporations, leading to an extensive corporate career.
Transitioned from corporate work to entrepreneurship, founding her own business focused on web design, then pivoting into digital marketing automation.
3. Demystifying Automation for Entrepreneurs:
Kimberley emphasizes the importance of building backend systems to effectively automate and optimize business communication.
Advocates starting with the end in mind, understanding clearly your ideal customer and how you want to serve them.
Highlights the common mistake entrepreneurs make: focusing on logos and branding first instead of a clear business strategy and customer journey.
4. Finding the North Star in Marketing:
Encourages entrepreneurs to establish their ultimate business goals, clearly define their target audience, and articulate the unique value they provide.
Kimberley explains how clarity in these areas simplifies the creation of marketing systems, lead generation, and automations.
5. Tackling Imposter Syndrome and Embracing Authenticity:
Shares her personal journey through imposter syndrome, emphasizing the importance of embracing your true self and capabilities.
Stresses the significance of being comfortable on camera, sharing content authentically, and accepting imperfections as part of growth.
6. Kimberley’s Automated Thought Leader Academy:
A digital learning space specifically designed for coaches, speakers, influencers, and consultants.
Teaches foundational digital marketing strategy, automation setup, customer journey mapping, and leveraging AI for business growth.
Provides practical, simplified training to help entrepreneurs scale without overwhelm.
7. Essential Tech Tools for Entrepreneurs:
Kimberley highlights three essential tools every entrepreneur needs when starting out:
Payment processing (to monetize services).
Appointment scheduling (to simplify client interactions).
Data collection (for email addresses and leads).
8. Choosing Mentors Wisely:
Kimberley recommends choosing mentors with qualities that complement your personality and challenge your comfort zones.
Suggests experimenting with low-cost programs or events to find mentors who resonate best with your business style.
9. Finding Balance and Joy in Business:
Shares her insights on maintaining balance: knowing clearly what you enjoy, what you’re good at, and confidently saying no to things outside your passion.
Advocates staying true to yourself, finding joy in your work, and allowing that passion to guide your business decisions.
10. Kimberley’s Magic Garden Wisdom:
Leaves listeners with an empowering seed of wisdom: "To thine own self be true," encouraging authenticity, self-belief, and staying grounded in your identity and values.
Memorable Quotes:
"Start with the end in mind—clarity simplifies your path."
"Your brand isn’t your logo; it's what people say about you when you're not in the room."
"You are enough. Everything you need for success is already within you."
"Be authentic. Your version of 'good enough' is usually pretty great."
How to Connect with Kimberley Inez Mays:
Website: kimberleyinesmays.com
Social Media: @kimberleyinesmays
Book a Free Automation Insight Session:
Available directly through Kimberley's website or via social media direct message.
Final Thoughts from Host David Chametski:
David encourages listeners to take Kimberley’s advice to heart—embracing authenticity, clarity, and purposeful action. Remember, when you bring your bat, swing confidently for your sweet spot.
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Episode Length: Approximately 25 minutes
Category: Entrepreneurship, Marketing Automation, Personal Development, Leadership
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